Sunday, June 2, 2013

I realize I never finished blogging about my India adventures...

Toward then end the finality of the trip began to dawn on me and I decided to just be immersed in my experience.  At this point I do not know I can or should back-blog.  Reflecting on the experience is one thing, but writing from the moment, with the memories and feelings being fresh and raw is another.  And I think I want this blog to be a testiment to those raw, unfiltered moments.  Maybe, I will post some pictures and captions, some exceprts from my written journal.

So, its been long enough that my desire to travel abroad again is flairing up.  Its like an illness of sorts.  One that needs to maintained and satiated or else is starts to eat at you.  The obsession begins to take over everything.  All of your thoughts drift back to this one notion: go. And of course, the more you think the more serious you  beceome.  You start to make plans, real tangable plans, with destinations, budgets and purpose.  Yeah.  I have all those things again at this point.

The new international plan: Lebanon, Palestinian refugees.  I will begin blogging about this new adventure. 

AH! We are being eaten by a cloud! Cloud: "Nomnomnom!"

What happens when you throw three awe-struck girls into muddy, mist-shrouded, rain-drenched mountains somewhere in Northern India?

Everything become tinted with an interesting, corky shade of humor.

Yvette, Jin (our new friend! She is from Pennsilvania and is in India working with another AMAZING NGO, Priyachi lives part time in the same apartment as we do) and I ventured to my, thus far, absolute favorite place in India: Dharamshala.

[This post was started in the summer of 2011, I do not feel it is right to go back and impose my reflective thoughts over the ones I had when the moment was fresh.  Maybe pictures. Must say though, Dharamshala is still my favorite places in India].



Thursday, July 28, 2011

It is always worth while to laugh

Some brief glimpses into our more interesting free time.


So after a celebration, we found our selves in the company of too much left over cake...

Thus I constructed frosting mountain.

Yvette played godzilla to frosting mountain.


...and I became a savage tribal cake-warrior.


Then we found some friends. We had fun with these friends.



We found a party rickshaw! Pimped out with flashing lights and bumpin' 90's pop.


We went to this place...

...Then this place

...which had pretty lights.



Yay friends!

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Chandi Chowk

We boldly ventured back to Old Delhi, into the craziness that is is Chandi Chowk. Yet this time we were accompanied by Anita and Priyanka. Having guides made the experience a lot less overwhelming, and having more friends made it a lot more enjoyable :)

Here are some pictures of the helter-skelter, wire strung streets of Old Delhi and us lounging in numerous sari shops trying on the most gorgeous saris.

If you read this please tell me which you like the best, I may attempt to go back and get one.
I know I already have one, but the ones we tried on today seemed a lot easier to maneuver in than our Bengali silk ones. The silk is tricky fish. Plus they were so nice. Note to my Indian friends: Get married soon so I can wear my saris!


Metro station (we got chased and yelled at for taking pictures, oops...haha!)

Walking around Chandi Chowk, scarves up to keep off the heat.

View from a rickshaw.

Friends in a rickshaw.

Connected. Old Delhi Style.

Jama Masjid (Mosque).

Anita and Priyanka, professional barterers.

Chillin' in a sari shop.

Look at all of them!

Clothing shop. I love the old-school sit down service.
Oh and Anita being silly.

Priyanka modeling the sari and converse combo.
Major fashion statement.

The absolutely stunning sari Yvette found.

Being wrapped up.
No way I would ever be able to do this by myself.

Sari #1.
Rajistani silk.
Red with green dots and silver beaded trim.

Sari #2
Shear sage (it is NOT light blue) sari.
Embroidered red, green and pink
decor and trim.
...and my skeptical face.

Sari #3
Amazing cream cotton&other material sari.
Thicker fabric.
Elegant Brown-gold patterning with trim.


Opinions please???

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Health Camp: A Lesson in Humility

This morning we had a chance to go visit another project of Maitri's, Project Awaaz. Awaaz brings health services and awareness, on issues such as HIV, TB, STIs, etc, to bike rickshaw pullers. The slum, which is home to approximately 2,000 rickshaw pullers and some of their family members, is located between two very none-telling streets, that host modern looking hotels, private doctors offices, posh shops. But turn down one discrete little road and suddenly you are in a huge open area, filled with people, rickshaws, tents. It was a whole working little community with a barber shop, tailor, one source of running water for over 2,000 people, little snack shops, fruit and veggie wallas (sellers).

The reason Maitri runs a health camp here is because most of these men are migrant works. While some families do live in this slum, most men come from villages where their families--wives and children, parents, etc--still live. As a migrant population they have a greater propensity toward behaviors like drug use and visiting sex workers, thus they run a higher risk for contracting HIV and STIs. The goal is awareness and testing. Condoms are given out, HIV testing is done, medications for simple ailments such as colds and the flu are provided and if more serious medical attention is needed Maitri will attempt to facilitate it.


The rickshaw slum.



The people.

At first I felt terrible about taking pictures. Wondering what right I had as a comfortable, privileged foreigner to tromp into their neighborhood to collect photos. But most of them were so into it! A group of young men followed our little group from the office around, telling us to take a picture of them, of her, of these kids, of this women. We always asked the people we were photographing, most agreed, but so often a shy women would blush and shake her head, so we didn't push it. Most of the kids were hesitant at first, but you could see behind their polite reservation that they were eager for the excitement and attention.




The smoking man above demanded we take his photo.



At the health clinic, the staff kept giving us various refreshments. First water, then soda, the a bag of peanuts. My goodness, we were just fine! Sometimes guest/foreigner privilege bothers me. Since I don't drink soda a prompted the little boy in blue and black to take it. The peanuts I have the stunning girl in orange. I love her hair and her smile, she exuded confidence and seemed to be there to reassure the little ones.




The heath clinic.

Amritsar: City of Faith, Patriotism and Bubbles

Our journey and stay in Amritar was a whirlwind adventure. We tripped through a lush country side, with lazily swaying trees shading busily working people. Tea bounced our little plastic train cups as we watched rice patty after rice patty rush passed us, on their way to no where in particular. Watery fields and a blurry sun rocked off us to sleep. But soon Amritsar arrived and would keep us riveted for the next 72 hours.

As we stumbled out of the Delhi-Amritsar Shetabdi Express we were quickly greeted by Mr. Bubbles (we are baffled at the name as well). This is the distinguished General sir's (General Singh, founder of Maitri along with his wife Winnie ma'am) brother. He is an equally distinguished man in appearance. He is well traveled, educated and very well-spoken. Very likeable. We felt immediately comfortable.

Once again we drove through an Indian night to a new destination. There is something about India at night. It is haunting, yet so intriguing. The problem is that as a female I will only see this world from a car window. The streets are filled with men, no matter the hour.

We reached the guest house that Mr. Bubbles and his wife run in their "semi-retirement". Mr. Bubbles introduced his wife, simple as, Bubbles.
Our bafflement deepened. But as with most things in India, you learn to go with the flow.

Oh and then there was Bruno! The Bubbles' big, clumsy, adorable, chocolate-coloured dog!

Tea and biscuits served as a midnight snack, and we were off immediately to bed. Come 5 am we more tea and biscuits woke us. We had to be ready this early so we could go see the Golden Temple. The Golden Temple is a temple of extreme significance in the Sikh faith, as is the city of Amritsar itself. At 6am we arrive with Mr. and Mrs. Bubbles and two adorable kids, Arti and Saro, the children of the guest house's manager, and the Bubbles near-adopted grandchildren.



Before entering the temple grounds everyone (men, women and children) had to cover their hair and remove their shoes. It was nice to quietly pad along on morning cooled marble and admire the 6 am sun shining on the Gold-plated temple. Unfortunately we were not allowed to take picture inside the temple itself (later in the day we visited a Hindu temple with a very similar layout where were were allowed to take pictures). The stone work was amazing. Colourful bits of stone were inlayed in the marble to create intricate designs of flowers and birds. In the water surrounding the temple were huge Koi fish hoping to get a share of the warm, grainy sweet that is given out at Sikh ceremonies.


After the temple we went to go have a traditional Indian breakfast. Everyone had talked about how good the food in Amritsar is...they forgot to mention how much of it you are required to eat and how much of it is fried. We had two panis--large hallow, inflated pastries that you squish down and pour various stews over, like chickpeas and such. The are the size of a large grapefruit. The Bubbles taroffed us into having two! Then after that they orderd Indian pancakes, which are much like their American cousin, but thicker and more dense, less fluffy. I couldn't do it. I had a few bites. Oh and along with all of this we had the thickest and biggest lassi I have had.
We had to nap for two hours afterward. It was painful.

After we woke up from the food-coma (as Yvette called it) we went out to explore a bit. We saw a Hindu temple that was modeled after the Golden Temple and attempted to walk around a couple of markets, but is was way too hot and humid so we just ended up condensating in a coffee shop along with our iced drinks.
We returned home to lunch. Which was good, but again mostly fried. Luckily the main fried dish was the famous Amritsar fish, and I was not obliged to eat it. Oh man and it was followed by a massive bowl of fresh cut mango. I was so full, but I had to have mangoes.

After lunch, which ended around four, we piled into a taxi with a British guy staying at the guest and headed out on the 30-45min drive to the Pakistani boarder.

No we were not, unfortunately, going to Pakistan. That would have been amazing! Lahor was only 23 km from the boarder!
We, actually, were going to see the daily boarder ceremony. Everyday at this particular spot on the vast Pakistan-India boarder, a small regiment from each army--the Pakistani and the Indian--hold a small, but extremely lively event, where the guards--who are about the height of NBA players--march around and chant. The gates separating the two countries are momentarily opened and the two sides shake hands and at the end of the ceremony, with the gates still open, there is a little flag bit, where the two flag cross each other as they are being lowered.
Beyond these brief moments of interaction, the ceremony was mostly a patriotic rally, where women ran down the road with the Indian flag held high and then later burst into dance when nationalist songs came on and chanting drowned out all of your thoughts.
The guards can high kick high enough that they kick their own fan hats! It was crazy!

This is the Pakistani side. And the women's side of the Pakistani side. We could not see if they were running with flags or dance in the road, but we could hear their chanting just as well as we could hear the Indians.

This here is the amazing cheerleader. The man in white. Where as American cheerleaders need short skirts, cute faces hidden under layers of make-up, shinny things to wiggle around and keep the crowds attention; all this man had to do was walk out of the building and lift both arms into the air and whole India side exploded. I wondered if he was a celebrity or local politician, but everyone I asked said he was just part of the army. Impressive. I think our cheerleaders need to come to India for an efficiency workshop: How to Get the Most Out of Your Minimalist Cheer.


The patriotic air was thick. It left me with a lot of politically saturated thoughts. Too many and too convoluted, all sticky with awe and depression, too ranty.
I'll spare you.

After we arrived home we had dinner (again a lot of fried stuff). Went to be late, around 12:30-1ish. We slept, not too comfortable though. Humidity and its little minions the mosquitoes kept us up. It ok though, we had to be up at 4 am anyway to make the 5 am train back to New Delhi, which arrived at 11:30am and was followed by 5 hours at work.


Amritsar: A religious, patriotic, bubbly, fried, whirlwind adventure.